One of the difficulties I've found with caring for someone with Alzheimer's disease is that I have so many concerns and questions yet it is a topic that doesn't make for good conversation among friends and co-workers.
Luckily, mom is living in an assisted living home and I can go to someone there with my questions. But thay don't have the time to just sit down and talk about all the things on my mind, to let me vent a little. And where do people who are providing care at home go?
Support groups.
Dealing with Alzheimer's is difficult and no one has all the answers. I attend a support group once a month and it makes a huge difference. We talk about how our loved one is doing, how we're doing, questions we may have, medicines, treatments, techniques we each have for dealing with various situations, doctor recommendations and anything else on our minds.
Just being able to talk with people going through the same thing feels great. The weight I carry is shared by others.
You don't even need to talk if you're not comfortable. Just listen. You'll feel better knowing you're not alone and others are feeling the same fears you do.
A good place to find a support group in your area is through the Alzheimer's Association. They'll help you find a local chapter and get you a list a support groups in your area. Some local chapters even have online support forums and chat rooms.
Many towns / cities also have senior citizen organizations. Check your phone book or call your city to see if they can point you to a nearby support group.
Links:
Alzheimer's Association.
Alzheimer's Association - find your local chapter.
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