This is the post I didn't want to write.
My mother passed away suddenly this past August. I had prepared myself for The Long Goodbye so this was unexpected. Luckily we were able to be there with her at the end. My sister stood at one side of the bed holding her left hand, I stood on the other holding her right.
My mother set an example that will be difficult to follow. The way she lived her life, the way she faced adversity and the way she treated others. She made an impression on people that led to many long term friendships.
The Alzheimer's slowed her down, but it couldn't touch the core of who she was. The more it peeled away at her memories, the more her positive attitude, appreciation of the simplest of things and concern for others over herself shone through.
I got to spend a lot of time with her these last three years. Visiting her, helping her, taking her on outings. I also became responsible for her. Looking out for her and taking care of all the things she was no longer able to do herself. I hated the disease and loved her. At times it was difficult, but I'd do it all again in a heartbeat if she needed me.
The way she lived her life will always be a guide for how I live the rest of mine.
This is why there haven't been any updates here for awhile. I took some time to grieve, took a step back, handled the details that needed to be handled in a time like this. I took some time to breathe.
I'm ready to get back to research and providing information. Mom's fight against Alzheimer's is over, but mine isn't.
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