I've written about the following incident in more general terms in a previous post about vigilance of Alzheimer's care homes. I'm now writing about it in more detail after reading recent posts by Karma at JewBu Quest. The problems she writes about and the response that she gets are far too familiar. I've been there. Same thing. Same company. Different facility. It brings back all the frustration and anger that I had at the time I was going through it.
Not providing detail about what happened to mom is not fair to anyone who may be facing the prospect of putting a loved one in a home. When I was a caregiver, the more information I had to work with, the better. Not being specific also let Sunrise Senior Living off the hook. It's time to correct that.
Before getting into what happened, here's a little background on mom to help you understand the situation and the change. Prior to getting sick mom was active, talkative, ate in the main dining room and, while using a walker for balance, walked around the facility daily.
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Here's my Sunrise Senior Living story:
The new director was promoted from coordinator from a nearby facility in the same chain of companies. Right away she seemed intimidated by her position. She tended to make herself pretty scarce. Some of the better staff quit or were forced out and pretty soon there were new staff that were basically unfriendly and didn't care too much about the residents.
With a hands off director and staff with little oversight, things went downhill very quickly.
One day I went to visit mom and could see right away that she was sick - a lot of coughing and congestion. I stopped by to see the nurse on the way out to make sure they'd keep an eye on her. The nurse wasn't aware that mom was sick but said they'd check on her.
The nurse called the next day to say they made an appointment with mom's doctor. I took mom myself and learned she had pneumonia and was dehydrated. The doctors orders were to keep her hydrated and if any changes, take her to urgent care.
I visited again three days later. There wasn't any noticeable change and she was still dehydrated. I trusted that they were following doctors orders and since I didn't hear anything I assumed everything was under control.
Three or four days after that I had a meeting with the new director and the coordinators of both the assisted living and Alzheimer's sections. They admitted that there were care and communication problems but they already had fixes planned and everything would be great.
I came back to visit mom the next day about 2 in the afternoon. I opened mom's door, saw mom and my first thought was that she was dead. She was sitting in her chair, mouth open and dry, lips chapped, vacant look in her eyes and not moving. Didn't even look at me when I walked in. After checking her she also had trouble speaking and breathing. She was too weak to stand. The difference was shocking and obvious.
I lost it after this. I went straight to the directors office and literally yelled at her. Mom got meds every morning and evening, the care managers saw her daily, the promises from the day before and no one lifted a finger to help her. No one called me or her doctor. The nurse said no one said anything to her but I found out they had documented that mom was not eating or drinking. They knew there were changes, they could see that she was getting worse, they had doctors orders and they walked away and did nothing. I took her to urgent care.
A couple days later I stopped by the directors office to see what she had to say. I reminded her that they have a nurse and that help in these situations are what we pay a lot of money for. She made more promises about fixing things. As I was leaving the office, the director said "it's a good thing you visit as often as you do". I wasn't sure what she meant, so I asked her. She said "if you hadn't been here your mother wouldn't have lasted the weekend". Then she chuckled a little bit.
I just turned and left the office before I did something drastic. I truly don't think she understood why I would be so angry.
After all this they still couldn't get their act together. I would get there after dinner was brought to mom's room just to see if they were helping her. The food was always cold by the time they brought it and they would just set it on a table and leave even though they knew mom didn't have the strength to feed herself. They would pick it up later untouched. This would happen repeatedly.
One night they didn't bring anything at all to drink. So much for orders to keep her hydrated. From this point on I went there every day. I couldn't trust them.
I had been concerned about retaliation. Up until this incident, I never threatened them with filing complaints. I just kept after them. But after this, there was nothing to lose.
I called the ombudsman first, she was shocked and said to call the California Department of Social Services and tell them. They came out and investigated (which took all of 15 minutes), and substantiated my claim of neglect.
On the report under "Plan of Corrections", it is blank. A far as I know, Sunrise didn't get in much trouble. Things didn't get any better. Six months later, the director was replaced right around the time mom passed away.
The only things I know that happed after that are they re-rented mom's room and dumped her stuff in another empty room without telling us even though we were paid through the end of the month and they were going to cut staffing levels even further.
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This was not a minor slip-up that got out of control. This was not one person making an isolated mistake. This neglect was not addressed or corrected in a timely manner. This neglect required several people at at levels of the facility (care managers, coordinators and director) to ignore the obvious. This neglect required them to withhold basic care repeatedly. This neglect continued after the problems were brought to their attention.
This is expensive professional Alzheimer's care in a facility that is part of a large, worldwide organization that is generally regarded as one of the better organizations. I think that their generally positive reputation says more about the level of oversight these homes receive than the quality of care that Sunrise provides.
Karma is absolutely right - this is unacceptable. It's time to shine a light on this industry problem. Change won't take place until people become aware and we let it be known that we demand better and our loved ones deserve better.
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